First, only Win 11 will show the 6GHz radio. Secondly you may need to be with a newer driver to make sure it will work.
After that, try to use WPA3-Personal security for the 6 GHz network.
I've tried the latest manufacturer driver 22.130.0.5, latest Intel driver 22.140.0.3, and even 22.150.0.3 and none of them can see the 6GHz network. Only when I switch to the old 22.45.1.1 does it see the 6GHz network. This is with Windows 11 and factory installed AX210/AX211 adapters on two of the computers. The other two are running Windows 10 and have the exact same issue. They can only see the 6GHz network using the old driver which Microsoft provided to Windows Insider Preview to initially enable Wi-Fi 6E in Windows 10.
Oh, if you are using the AX11000 router, that is a Wi-Fi 6, not a Wi-Fi 6e device. You need the AXE11000 0r the new AXE16000
I went from an AX-11000 to the AXE-16000. Just didn't change the network name. Even tried the AXE-11000. Still cannot see the 6GHz network.