Andy: I tend to think it is a "Network" issue as opposed to the "adapter" . Have no proof of this but too many people are having the problem and I doubt we are all sharing the same adapter.
Right now my computer is sleeping but I'm not sure why because I made two changes (1) was that I left the HomeGroup on all 4 machines and (2) under Power Options I set both display & sleep to "never" shutdown for 2 minutes - rebooted restored default Power
Options - shutdown for 2 minutes - rebooted and 30 minutes later was sleeping like a baby.
Completely contrary to advice in other threads the network adapter is set to wake the computer as are mouse and keyboard. Advanced Power Options are also default.
Will give it another 24 hours and report back because I've seen these the insomnia return.
Of course shutting off HomeGroup is NOT a solution and defeats the whole point of having a Windows network. I think Microsoft has to actually put some effort to providing a real solution. I've got 4 machines 2 of which are still on Windows 7 and given the
problems I've had with Windows 8.1 I won't be upgrading.