Downloaded a 3D Trailer in MP4, side by side coded. My Standard MP4-Icon was shown and nothing out of the ordinary happened for a while. Except moving the file seemed impossible, but copying to another hdd worked.
A while later I got a system freeze (during a flash vid in fullscreen), complete with NumLock dead. But the system recovered a few minutes later.
Then came a Message, that I was out of memory, which actually was true, according to the Task Manager.
Culprit was dllhost.exe which I could watch hogging all Memory it could get. After killing it with the Task Manager it started over again, leaking Memory every second.
Searching the net suggeted something to do with the Thumbnails and I also found this Thread.
I renamed the Trailer's extenstion from mp4 to unknown. The action could only be completed by killing dllhost.exe again. After doing that for both copies of the 3d-mp4, the Memory situation was normal again.
Conclusion: Kudos to my Win7 64 Home Premium for actually recovering from such a situation without reboot or blue screen, shame on the programmers of a non critical background process like thumbnails to allow for critically failing the system by infinite memory leak and not every malfunction is a malware or virus.
WORKAROUND at least for me: Changing the extension to a video extension that the system does not generate thumbnails for. In my case .mkv (not tested with Windows Media Player as I use other players)