Windows 10 May 2020 update is now available

hello there.... hear me out for god sake. i got a new gaming pc i worked for..

specs: I7 9700K 3.6GHZ 

16GB OF RAM

1tb samsung quavo

GPU RTX 2060 SUPER DUAL 8GB 

when i installed a fresh windows copy on it it was running fine with all apps in the background and my memory used to be under 10.

1 update later ITS STAYING ON 30 TO 20 AND ITS KILLING MY PC.......... wich this new may update

tried everything from re formating my pc 5 times

asking tech support from here :WINDOWS ADVISORS: wich it didnt help at all every single one of them keep telling me the same method wich not working at all.. i love how someone told me GET MORE RAM LIKE WTH

all of this from a damn windows update wich people saying its the 2004 update i re installed older versions of windows wich i was hoping its goona work and nope it didnt my memory still the same.. im lit tired of this bs.

so please for god sake. it happend before in 2018 for my old  cpu wich my old pc... and its happening again  in this pc

yes, I tried to search it but unable to find outlook,

but somehow now I have managed to find the outlook.