NeilJin, Well sir, thank you once again for encouraging me to wait it out! I did just that and let it run since 4pm yesterday (now 6am) and surprise, surprise, this morning it is installing 214 of 241 updates!!!
When I look at installed updates most of them are pending with several successful. However this morning I got my first ever LOW MEMORY notice on this laptop. I killed everything I could, changed performance options, shut down Defender's live shield, etc.
to regain memory but it is going to be another long morning waiting it out.
I had written this off as too problematic to continue BUT since you wrote I thought, what have I got to lose at this point and did follow your suggestion. Had to let you know and thank you once again.
I do not know yet if this will be 100% successful or not BUT it is the best result so far as far as getting updates downloaded - if all install well I will close this case out.