Well here are my results. I went into power management and set everything to hibernate. I also added hibernate to the shut down menu to make it easier. Last night I put the machine in hibernate mode, the batteries at the time were at 93% for the main and 100% for the secondary. I closed the lid, left it attached and left in on the table in case it woke up. I didn't want it to cook itself in case it came on.
It did not come on and this afternoon, it was quite cool and comfortable. I hit the power button and it came on, quite quickly, and well the battery was the same as when I shut it down 12 hours ago. 93 and 100 percent. I had no other issues. So for me and I hope for others this solution works.
I have gone back and set the other options to sleep when I close the lid as I never had the sleep issue. I use the hibernate mode I added to the power options to hibernate it. This is working. It really comes down to adding it to the power options and using hibernate instead of shut down. Weird. It is almost as if the two functions are reversed. Well this solution will work for me. As long as the machine is not using up battery and not coming on and cooking itself I can live with this.