Microsoft 365 features that help users manage their subscriptions, account settings, and billing information.
Dear Cathy,
No need to apologise, the detail is genuinely helpful. I should be upfront that what you are describing does not look like a Microsoft 365 filtering problem. The "550 No Such User Here" rejection comes from the server that refuses the message, and that happens before the message ever reaches Microsoft. If Microsoft never received it, then blocked senders, quarantine, junk folders and mail flow rules cannot be the cause. That is also why nothing turned up in your spam folder. Your Exchange checks back that up. Your mailbox is listed, your name and business address are correct, and your domain shows as the only accepted domain. Everything on your side is configured as it should be.
The fact that every address you hold with that host produces the same 550 points to their platform still treating your domain as locally hosted, so it delivers internally instead of following your MX record to Microsoft 365. That would explain why their logs show the message as sent while nothing arrives.
Given how long this has gone on, it is worth opening a support case with Microsoft so an engineer can review your mail flow with you directly and confirm this in writing. Your message trace results will help them get there quickly. For guidance, see Get support - Microsoft 365 admin.
I hope this helps. Looking forward to your reply.