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We are trying to help you fix the problem But if you ignore our suggestions there is not much we can do.
Your Word installations are not working "normally". Normally files do not get set to read only. But there are a couple of situations where they do, "to protect you from yourself" ... We have to identify one of those places from the information you provide us.
We need you to tell us as much as possible about the problem so that hopefully some point or another will trigger a memory to identify a cause for the problem. But you constantly whining "...just let me control it..." is not going to get you anywhere.
Did you check the "Protected View" setting that Stefan suggested. Although this would cause a slightly different symptom that you could bypass, it is worth checking.
While you are in the Trust Center, also take a look in the File Block Settings option. These settings are intended for older file formats, so I doubt they are your problem.
Also take a look at the "Trusted Locations" option. These are locations that word considers it safe to open files from.
Does the read only problem happen to files that never leave your computer? Is it only associated with files you have passed around for editing by other people?
And do the safe mode test too!