I agree with about 80% of that . :D As an IT Pro from enterprise environments I've become accustomed to the feature rich full version of Microsoft Office standalone suite so I may be partial to that but I understand and agree with many of the reasons for using alternatives. I've got Thunderbird configured as a backup on the PC, and on Android I like Fair Email. I might check out 9folders since it has been mentioned numerous times here but straying on topic, a recap...
There is a server side issue with Outlook Email for many people, which is experienced differently by different people using different email clients and or different settings, and which in a very few cases can be worked around with specifica settings, and which Microsoft minimally acknowledges here: https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/office/outlook-and-other-apps-are-unable-to-connect-to-outlook-com-f4202ebf-89c6-4a8a-bec3-3d60cf7deaef
I encourage people experiencing this to click on "Outlook" at Office 365 at Down Detector:
https://downdetector.com/status/microsoft-365/