Configuring preferences and options in Outlook.com
For anyone else having this same issue, who finds this page,
I went to the feedback page, looked for someone who had already raised this concern, couldn't find it on the list, so added it myself;
If you want this fixed, please add your voice:
https://feedbackportal.microsoft.com/feedback/idea/6f783689-929d-ee11-92bd-0022484eec36
(if that is a duplicate feedback request, very happy for it to be deleted / amalgamated with any overlapping existing feedback request - but I couldn't see anything there)