I think I figured out the problem (and we can tell Yahoo that they're mistaken and wasting our time if they say we should go to Microsoft).
I wanted to see if there was any update on IMAP configuration (I'm on AOL, but I found Yahoo info first, and I assume it's the same for everybody).
It's at https://help.yahoo.com/kb/SLN28681.html (the page with the specs for adding "Export" to the server name).
As I'm reading it, I notice (red highlight is my emphasis) :
"Limitations for large folders - Folders containing upwards of 100 thousand or more emails may have issues downloading all the messages. To resolve this, move some of the email to a new folder in your account."
So I'm wondering: When/where did this come from? Or has it always been the case and they just decided to pull the trigger Sept. 15th, and changed IMAP configuration to "prove" that they were serious about "issues downloading"?
Of course the page doesn't have any date, so I try "View Page Source" and "Inspect", etc. but I'm not that tech savvy. However after some more searching, I find: https://archive.ph/help.yahoo.comThat has a bunch of historical screenshots of various yahoo pages, so I look for "SLN28681", and find four older versions (March '22, Dec. '21, April '21, and March '21).
They seemed identical to each other, but there was one difference between all of them, compared to the current version:
"Limitations for large folders - Folders containing upwards of 1 million or more emails will have issues downloading all the messages. To resolve this, move some of the email to a new folder in your account."
So sometime between March '22 and last week, they changed their protocol, didn't tell anybody, and completely misstated the situation (a maximum of 100,000 is quite different than "issues downloading").
Now that we know a bit more of what's going on, what do we do?
Meanwhile, after getting Outlook error when this all started that my mail file was corrupted (I've never had that before) I went through some Microsoft process of repairing/rebuilding it.
Since then, I haven't been able to delete anything in Inbox, Sent, Drafts, etc. because of error message: "The operation cannot be performed because the object has been deleted". So it thinks none of the emails exist?
If anyone has experienced something similar, or has any solutions, please advise.
Thanks