My AOL has been fine since I changed to the Export IMAP server, except for that problem of SPAM folder (or "BULK", as Outlook calls it) not having any of the spam, requiring me to log into AOL constantly to check if any legitimate emails have ended up there.
Earlier this evening, when I saw the posts (about Yahoo), I was still OK, but figured AOL would be impacted eventually. Indeed, about an hour ago, Outlook wasn't refreshing, and I reboot when that happens.
Sure enough, I ended up being capped like everybody's reporting, but mine didn't have the problems with "rebuilding" or reloading, and my Reply/Forward flags seem to still be there.
Instead, I noticed that my count started going DOWN from about 170,000 to 160K, 150K, etc., and after about 45 minutes, I stopped at exactly 100,000. Tried to call AOL, but because it asked for phone number, and my old landline, cell, etc. didn't work, it then said "We're closed, call tomorrow..."