Configuring preferences and options in Outlook.com
Dear Moderator,
I don't use Outlook per se, nor Gmail. The disconnect as experienced by yours truly is between my Microsoft Contacts account and my Google Contacts account. I'v tried everything recommended in this thread, including your advice above, with no success - but see my more lengthy post above re side-effects and more detail.
I woud appreciate some constructive observations on all of this, please. If you've got a problem and are working on it, please tell us all so, so we don't waste even more of our time!