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I was having this same problem, on a relatively new PC with Nvidia Card. I tried three different monitors, and they all would have a black screen when I used either "Shift+Restart" or using the Restart function in the Settings. Hitting enter key repeatedly sometimes would take me back to the regular windows startup, but no way to access bios.
Here's what worked for me:
Fortunately the motherboard in this PC had a "flashback" feature, that easily allows you to flash the motherboard back to its original (non-windows polluted!) bios.
The motherboard is an AsRock 690 4/5D ... I think other AsRock motherboards have this same feature. Basically you download a file, rename it, then put it on a flash drive, and push a button on the back of the PC (with the power off) and this flashes the BIOS. Here are the instructions I followed.
https://www.asrock.com/support/QA/FlashbackSOP.pdf
Immediately after doing this, I got the ASRock logo on reboot and was able to enter BIOS by pushing f2 AND now I can install Ubuntu! I'm NEVER using windows again ... this adventure was my first time using Windows in years, and it was a pretty horrible experience!
Hope this helps someone ... I think the underlying problem here is Windows 11 implementation of UEFI; seems half baked based on all these comments.