Thanks for encouraging me. I am finally in 20H2 after using MS audio-drivers i.o. Conexant!
I did it after deselecting all autostarts from task-manager and after deselecting all non-MS-services from msconfig.
Thereafter I used the media creation tool for upgrade "on this PC" as upgrade was not offered even after three days on MS-drivers.
Everything worked fine.
Nevertheless I think I stay with MS-drivers until anybody can convince me of advantages from Conexant-drivers.
One more thing for anybody who's doing the same: after the upgrade, my "High definition audio device" (formerly Conexant) wasn't working until I installed the MS drivers again (it was listed under "other devices"). For that, you need to set the "DenyDeviceIDs"-value to "0". It took just a few seconds to install MS-drivers (same method as described some pages before), then I reset the value to "1" to prevent the system from installing Conexant drivers. No restart required.