Well, It looks like my VMware VDI Infrastructure will NOT be getting the patches, simply due to the performance hit it will take. I will have to use other means to prevent them from getting exploited.
On a positive note though, I did update the firmware for my dell laptops, and confirmed it patched the hardware vuln. Steve Gibson @ Gibson research has developed a tool to test for these vulnerabilities, and I trust him far above others.
IE thinks the site has Malware, which it most certainly does not, so just use a different browser to download if you are interested. The URL is https://www.grc.com/inspectre.htm. It will check your system against Spectre and Meltdown and give you excellent specifics to help remediate if needed, along with good details to explain why your OK if that's the case.
I ran the tool before I patched the OS, then after, then again before firmware updates, and after, and it tracked everything from start to finish.