Solution is,
step1. create a notepad folder copy paste - following and save as under name options.ini
AllHealthBars = yes
AlternateMouseSetup = no
AmbientVolume = 50.000000
AudioLOD = High
Brightness = 50
FixedStaticGameLOD = UltraHigh
FlashTutorial = 0
GameSpyIPAddress = 192.168.1.34
HasSeenLogoMovies = yes
HeatEffects = yes
IdealStaticGameLOD = Low
IsThreadedLoad = yes
MovieVolume = 70.000000
MusicVolume = 70.000000
Resolution = 1024 768
SFXVolume = 70.000000
ScrollFactor = 50
SendDelay = no
StaticGameLOD = UltraHigh
TimesInGame = 57
UnitDecals = yes
UseEAX3 = no
VoiceVolume = 70.000000
then go C:\Users[name]\AppData\Roaming\My Battle for Middle-earth Files folder. and move the options.ini here
step2
change compatibility settings windows 7
step3right click - run with nvidia graphic
have fun