I have gone through this entire discussion and I am quite surprised and disappointed that Microsoft engineers have not understood the basic problem that has been repeatedly pointed out by the original posted. Instead, they have given tons of other solutions, all of which have been tried by the original poster and have not worked - his original problem remains unresolved.
I am posting here because I came to this thread after facing the exact same problem. I purchased a new Del XPS 13 (2015) touch screen last month with Windows 8.1. I was extremely surprised to see the TINY buttons in Windows Media Player and VLC Player. These playback buttons are SO small they simply cannot be used. This does not seem to be a problem with resolution, drivers or screen settings - as all 3 are optimally set for my new laptop.
To help the Microsoft engineers understand this problem (since they could not fully understand it when the original poster shared it) I am attaching 3 screenshots where I have highlighted the problem in red and yellow boxes.
It seems to be a problem in the applications and how they are configured on Windows 8.1