I have done a bit of of research on the Intel web page and found that Intel seems to have dropped support for 4965AGN WiFi chipset somewhere between version 15.3.1 and 15.3.50 releases made on the same day. All following driver versions do not support this chipset.
So I have installed version 15.3.1 now and my device manager now shows:
Driver Provider: Intel
Driver Date: 07.10.2010
Driver Version: 13.4.0.139
Interestingly the data matches the one from the "Microsoft" driver quite well. I guess the Microsoft driver is just based on Intel 13.3 edition drivers released a couple of months earlier.
What I could test already is that also with the Intel 13.4.0.139 driver the card won't re-connect to wifi after standby resume. This time I just disabled MSI in the registry for this device rather than disabling 802.11n mode in device properties. It seems to
fix the resume issue for me on the Intel 13.3.0.139 driver:
Windows Registry Editor Version 5.00
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SYSTEM\CurrentControlSet\Enum\PCI\VEN_8086&DEV_4229&SUBSYS_11018086&REV_61\4&34ad53c6&0&00E1\Device Parameters\Interrupt Management\MessageSignaledInterruptProperties]
"MSISupported"=dword:00000000
NOTE: You might have to adapt the device identifier (VEN_8086&DEV_4229&SUBSYS...) according to your hardware.
Though I have little hope that the driver will run stable for hours as it seems to behave exactly like the Microsoft driver (which is likely just re-branded Intel driver too).
I still wonder why the WiFi driver which was working fine with Windows Vista, 7 and even 8(.0) can crash the Windows 8.1 kernel so badly.
Update: I still had to disable 802.11n mode as standby resume issue was not fixed by just disabling MSI. I suspect this time it just took longer for Windows to notice that connection is actually lost after wakeup. This time the driver behaves quite randomly.
Even with 802.11n mode disabled it sometimes does not return from standby and is unable to connect to any network after resume. The only way to revive it is to reboot or disable/enable the device.
Thank you, I edited the registry as instructed in this detail, and My 8.1 clean install has NOT rolled-over after many hours of operation. If it doe I will edit this post, but if your getting this error, this worked on my Sony Viao -