Thanks for replying and for the extra information about your issues.
I do not know if the issue is related the hardware of your laptop, with drivers for the laptop or with any software that you have installed, for example any Lenovo specific software.
What I can say is I have never had the issue that you describe, and would suggest that it is not normal Windows 8 behaviour, so don't worry, Windows 8 is not hat bad to use, in fact when it is working correctly it is quite nice. Even if others report the same issue, it is not happening to everyone.
The challenge is how to resolve your Windows 8 installation's abnormal behaviour. Here are a few suggestions (sadly, all of which I am sure that you have tried before or are unable to do). Since you mentioned that several of your friends also have the same issue, and I believe you said with the same hardware, it is likely to be that Windows 8 does not have suitable hardware drivers for the laptop model that you are using.
You said, "We all loved the new "Chicklet" tablet keys on the new Lenovo laptops, and we all bought one", so I would ask, "Have you installed a Windows 8 upgrade?" I am guessing from your previous postings that this is the case, and therefore Windows 8 might not have the correct drivers for your Laptop's model ? I am an IT manager supporting a small company, and I have wanted to upgrade a number of our laptops but have not been brave enough to do so due to the lack of the manufacturers supplying drivers for Windows 8. I was please to find that Lenovo has released Windows 8 Drivers for a number of their models (but as yet have not had the time to install an upgrade). I found this site which helped me locate drivers for one of our models http://support.lenovo.com/en_AU/research/hints-or-tips/detail.page?&AliasID=WIN8-INDEX&rd=1 maybe you can find drivers for you laptop model.
If you can, this is how I was going to attempt an install and test Windows 8's stability. My intention is to purchase a new hard disk drive, replace the existing drive so that I still have the ability to go back if required, then install a fresh clean installation of Windows 8 with the drivers supplied by Lenovo. If this worked without any issues, then I would try a straight upgrade to the existing hard disk drives of out other laptops. I am confident that your IT friends will be able to help on this process, but if you want any tips on how I go about the installation, please ask.
If you are able to do the above, please give it a try. On a Toshiba laptop, I have tried several times to install Windows 8, but there were no drivers for at least two hardware components, so I had to go back to Windows 7 until Toshiba releases drivers for the models that we have. Their web site reports that they are in the process of making drivers, so I do not mind waiting.
I do not know if you can do a clean installation, and please do not install any other software or drivers, other than that which comes with Windows 8 and test to see how Windows 8's Charms behave? If you can this would be a quick test to see if the same issue still exists. At least this would tell you if the issue was directly related to Windows 8 compatibility with your laptop hardware or with other software/drivers that we would normally install after installing native Windows 8.
If you are unable to resolve the issue, I would recommend going back to Windows 7 for the time being, as the problem you describe will make you hate Windows 8, when it is not really Windows 8's fault. While I am getting used to Windows 8, and do not appreciate all its features, the issue that you are experiencing is not how Windows 8 is designed to work.