OK so that would explain why you're not stable like we are. We have a higher version than you and it's only been on this version that my SP has ever been stable with a 4K display so until you get to that version I guess you'll have issues.
Either you're not on the latest version of windows or perhaps you're in a region that uses a different driver for some reason.
Can you check your windows version? I'm on the latest public released version (only came out about 2 weeks ago but I've had it for a month as I'm an windows insider) . If you go to settings, system, about you can find this information
Edition: Windows 10 Pro
Version: 1803
OS Build: 17134.48