I tried uninstalling the drivers and rebooting and the wi-fi is still bad. I hadn't realized that it's not just cutting out completely, it's also spotty, as I discovered during a video call this afternoon.
All the many wi-fi devices in the house are all connected this router without issue. I hope there's no need to replace it.
I tried uninstalling the driver and restarting, and it's still not working. I can see that the driver installed is now 21.40.1.3. Windows Update says it's the best version, but at the link you sent there is a newer version, 21.40.2, so I'm going to try installing that next. I'll post an update when I can see whether it works. Thanks!