Welcome Connie,
I understand your frustration, especially if you're paying for the service and cannot access Copilot in Outlook for Mac.
To help narrow down the cause, could you please confirm:
- Are you using a personal Microsoft account (Outlook.com, Hotmail.com, Live.com) or a work/school account?
- Which Outlook for Mac version are you using? (Outlook > About Outlook)
- Which Microsoft 365 subscription do you have (Personal, Family, etc.)?
Once you provide the account type and Outlook version, I can continue troubleshooting the missing Copilot icon issue.