Hello Vovenskiy,
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Based on your information, if the account date of birth is correct, it makes sense that your account will be treated as a child account. Changing date of birth won't help in this. In this case, can you please try to create an adult account, add your account as a child account and try to check the privacy settings again?
I'm waiting for your reply.