Hello, I’m Virginia a fellow Windows user.
Under Windows updates there should be the option to resume updates again, if not then can you supply a screenshot of what you’re seeing?
Otherwise right click Start & choose command prompt with admin & enter: Net Start wuauserv or use powershell/terminal with admin & enter these commands:
Set-Service -Name wuauserv -StartupType Automatic
Start-Service -Name wuauserv