ask for permission for an adult to play when i dont have xbox family group its only me and im an adult

Follow these steps to remove child/Family Safety restrictions so an adult account can play Xbox games and use Xbox Game Bar on Windows:

1. Confirm the account is not in a Microsoft family group
   • Go to https://account.microsoft.com/family and sign in.
   • If no family members are listed, the account is not currently in a family group.
   • If a family is listed, the account may have been added previously and Family Safety settings can still apply.
2. Refresh/remove Family Safety settings on the PC Even if the account is an adult and not in a family group, the device may still enforce old Family Safety settings. On the affected PC:
   1. Press Windows + R to open Run.
   2. Type cmd and select OK to open Command Prompt.
   3. In Command Prompt, run:

            schtasks /run /tn "Microsoft\Windows\Shell\FamilySafetyRefreshTask"
      

   4. Restart the computer.
   Repeat these steps on each impacted device.
3. If still blocked, temporarily use a family organizer to unblock If the account somehow has child-like restrictions:
   • Sign in to https://family.microsoft.com with an organizer account.
   • Add the affected account as a family member.
   • For that member, turn off or relax all Family Safety features (screen time, content filters, etc.).
   • Ensure Xbox and Windows online safety settings are set to Allow where needed.
   • Sign out of Xbox apps and games on the PC, then restart the device.
   • After confirming everything works, the account can remain in the family with unrestricted settings, or be removed if no longer needed.
4. If Microsoft thinks the account is a child
   • If the birthdate on the account is wrong and shows as underage, follow the guidance under I'm an adult, but Microsoft thinks I'm a child in the birthdate-change article referenced from the Family Safety troubleshooting page.

These steps clear stuck Family Safety restrictions that can block Xbox Game Bar and Xbox-linked games for adult accounts.

References:

• Family Safety settings enforced on adults
• Troubleshooting Microsoft Family Safety
• Family Safety Restrictions apply to account that has been removed - Microsoft Q&A
• Cannot access Minecraft Realm Stories but I have an adult account - Microsoft Q&A