Do your calendar and email sync to both Google and Exchange from your phone? Mine don't. Email to my Google addresses remain separate, but I receive them in Outlook to my Exchange inbox, so my computer puts them all together.
My calendar's are separate, but they show together on my phone. You can get a Google sync plug-in for Outlook that will keep them in sync whenever you run Outlook. I tried it once, and it worked Great, but then my phone had dupes of everything so I turned
it off and deleted them off Google.
I put my IT guys on this...I was going bonkers. Yes. Email and Calendar sync both ways and I have Exchange set up to receive my Exchange eamil account and my gmail accounts. I have both Cloud Mail and Default Android mail set up on my phone. Android
default email's search capabilities are terrible but I sort of like the interface. Cloud Mail search engine works great--- like Exchange Email. I'm sure I'll eventually pick Cloud mail because of the search function....
The calendar syncs both ways - those entries I put on Exchange's Calendar and those I put on my phone (using Android's default Calendar).
The IT guys researched the some of the sync apps you're talking about and they all said the same thing - duplicated the items, etc. I've found as long as i put the contacts in the phone as ActiveSync accounts, they sync back and forth between Exchange and
the phone fine.
Are you using ActiveSync on your phone for your Exchange account?