Hi Europa. I 'm I'm Greg, 10 years awarded Windows MVP, here to help you.
I'm not sure what disable auto-arrange is except for the desktop icons. The order of files in your folders always has been controlled by the Sort by and Group by choices on Explorer View tab.
This is explained here in the best articles about customizing folder view in Explorer:
https://www.howtogeek.com/howto/16694/customize...
https://www.tenforums.com/tutorials/34895-chang...
https://www.tenforums.com/tutorials/34946-chang...
If this is not exactly what you need, please explain a bit more so I can help you better. Otherwise feel free to ask back questions and keep me posted on your progress as I will be here to help until this is resolved.
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