I hear you. I've been using Windows since version 2 when it was just a layer atop MS-DOS. It's difficult to fathom Microsoft's apparent inability (unwillingness?) to address serious issues like this, but what I find just as irksome is the concurrent devolution of Windows into a platform for pushing 3rd-party products, i.e., advertising.
Just yesterday I opened my longtime favorite PC weather app, MSN Weather, to suddenly see UI real estate devoted to an ad featuring doomsday preppers tripe. Really, Microsoft?