I do not want to jinx this, but been maybe 36 hours or more no blacking of the screen. I truly thought twice on posting this :)
I went to displayport rather than HDMI. That alone seems to have fixed the loss of signal when checking for HDCP on videos with DRM, like switching to Hulu Live.
Then I disabled the monitor speakers (there are none!!) in settings/sound. You "could" add a soundbar to this monitor, so Windows seems to think that constitutes speakers and adds it as a sound device Disable it if not being used and not your primary sound source.
Then I made ALL apps that use graphics select "let windows decide" where I had the apps wiith the blacking issues set to "low power" to force the Integrated Graphics. This was Firefox, Edge, and Lightroom. Photoshop never had the issue.
That's it.
Cross fingers with me, would ya?