Not sure if this was mentioned anywhere here, but for me it turns out the problem was not the driver, but the HDMI cable I was using. I kept whatever old HDMI cable I had on my old monitor, and ran into all the usual "wrong resolution" / "no higher resolutions availble" issues. Turns out no all HDMI cables are the same, who knew.. (everybody probably). Switching to the privided DisplayPort cable fixed all issues. I didn't go back and try the HDMI cable that was in the box, might work fine as well.
Edit: this was connecting a Surface Laptop Studio (i5, iGPU) to the 35WN65C-B.AUS via an Anker 11-in-1 USB-C dock.