Edit: Even though Windows update still gave me the message below, I ran the Windows 10 Update Assistant tool and this time it worked! BitDefender Antivirus was still installed and running so in my case the update had nothing to do with pausing or uninstalling
the antivirus software. Wrong advice by Microsoft again.
Put me on this list too. I'm still getting the "The Windows 10 May 2020 Update is on its way. Once it’s ready for your device, you’ll see the update available on this page." It's now December 1st with no fix or explanation in sight. I contacted support,
they remoted in and tried to do a few things. When they got to remotely reflashing the Bios I stopped them. They sent follow-up emails and when I would respond, no response. When I would manually try to install the update it would fail on 2nd reboot and then
roll back to 1909.
If this isn't bad enough, I have two identical Asus G750JW laptops. One installed to 2004 update without a problem. The second one keeps failing. Is there a way to jump over 2004 initial release and install 2009?