So i have been a few weeks now on build 21H1 and tested a few things out. I could finally track down the cause for the freezes in idle. It turned out to be the Corsair Link Software. I had to completly remove it and delete every trace of it, cause it was so deep in the system, that it even was causing problems in safe mode.
But now after a week of use without freezes, i am suddenly facing problems again with this version out of nowhere, which is very weird, cause i set up the system to not automatically update drivers and paused the windows updates, so that the system stays the same during the testing.
First problem i encounterd was stuttering youtube videos. It occured in both Chrome and Edge. Sometimes it also triggers the Nvidia driver to crash when going into video full screen mode. Screen goes black for a second and you hear the windows device sound. The reliability monitor throws out a LiveKernelEvent 117 error then and the driver gets reseted. I tried then to adress this problem by updating to the latest Nvidia driver 471.11. This resulted in even worse problems and giving out some nice blue screens. So i reverted back to the 466.27 using DDU. But still, it occurs just randomly. Before it ran a week without any crashes and as mentioned before, nothing has been changed.
The second problem is massive fps drops and stutters in games. Before in Build 1909, everthing ran buttersmooth. Now Games like Witcher 3 which ran before at a constant 110 fps with ultra settings in 3440x1440p drop suddenly to 20 or 30 fps and stutters.
I still think there is something wrong with the newer versions 2004, 20H2 and 21H1. Maybe they are just incompatible with X99 Chipsets and i7 5960X and other 5th gen processors and have not been tested properly before releasing.
Anyways i hope i could at least help someone with the idle freezes i encountered, by removing corsair link.
At least i got a windows image backup from my 1909 install, so i think i will just go back and have a working system again, without crashes, stutters or any other kind of annoying random problems. Have to delete and deactivate everything then, which has to do with windows update, that i dont get the forced updates against my will. And i will not buy a new Mainboard and CPU, just because of a silly software update. It still can keep up with all modern games and has more than enough power. I am just tired of microsoft breaking things and i wont invest more weeks of time just for troubleshooting and testing. I just want a working system, really miss the times with Windows 7. Something like this never ever happened before.