Thank You, Cassandra.
Most these people do not understand that this site is not monitored by Microsoft. It is for Consumers and a lot of do it your self.
I paused my Updates after reading for a couple weeks, then realized that possibly I would not have a problem because I use Windows Defender, Microsoft Malware and Firewall, so I took it off pause, checked for Updates. Got the Cumulative Framework one first, installed it, then restarted, then Checked for Updates again and got the 1909. I already had the 1903 installed last year. I had not one single issue downloading and installing that Feature 1909 Update, and it only took maybe 10 minutes. My Lap Top will be 10 years old in December and since I went with all Microsoft, I have had no issues, no virus, no problems.
I will stick with Microsoft.