Microsoft Family - Child can remove themselves from the family

I am outraged to find out I am trapped in the same problem. I spent couple of my precious days to figure out how to play with family settings with Microsoft account and got my 13 years old son to be added into my family.

The screen time limit etc just worked for 2 weeks before he found out this notorious "opt out" button in his account last night. I did get an email notification showing your son left your family but how come! It is a such bad design and useless feature that Microsoft has been bragging about that your kid can just simply get the escape with 1 click without the consent from the family organizer, parents. The most absurd thing is that It didn't cost me more than 1 minute to google out these many threads complaining the loophole discussed by so many pissed off parents for quite a number of years since 2015! What a shame to Microsoft 's PM, Dev, and QA on this. Think about I even need to ask my child to agree to accept my invite of joining him into the family, then what 's the heck that I was not even being asked to agree when he want to leave? 

This ridiculous 13 years line reminds me of another anti-human policy that you don't have access to your children's online medical account even for the purpose of making appointment or paying statements within for the stupid reasons. If this is the case, why not directly bill them instead of always sending bills to parents!? I need to think of moving to PS or Nintendo systems if they have better parental control.

Hey guys! I just changed the DOB to 3yrs old. And as well as setting the restrictions to a 3 year old.  

whoa whoa whoa, How old is your child and if they are older than 5 or 6 what the hell is wrong with you?!? Why in the world would you change content restrictions to 3 YEARS OLD, whoever that child is I am full of sympathy for them because they would not be able to do anything. Its like buying them a computer for like $300 and then telling them they cant use it anymore for the rest of their lives. (Setting content restrictions to 3 will be nothing, the child won't be able to do anything.)

Well...when you have teenagers struggling with porn, the last thing you want is to give unlimited access to it. So how about you take several seats Karen and mind the business that pays you! Have a great day!

Hey guys! I just changed the DOB to 3yrs old. And as well as setting the restrictions to a 3 year old.  

whoa whoa whoa, How old is your child and if they are older than 5 or 6 what the hell is wrong with you?!? Why in the world would you change content restrictions to 3 YEARS OLD, whoever that child is I am full of sympathy for them because they would not be able to do anything. Its like buying them a computer for like $300 and then telling them they cant use it anymore for the rest of their lives. (Setting content restrictions to 3 will be nothing, the child won't be able to do anything.)

If your child does not want these restrictions, you might want to talk to him/her and ask why does he not want it. If he gives a good reason like, "its interfering with my online social life and my gaming life." But it depends If he finishes his school work on time and you are happy with him, and also its a default setting for child accounts that are 13 or above, the child can remove themselves. I am against the fact that Microsoft set this monstrosity up for it causes more problems within the family.

I have this same problem, and my son's account is setup as a child.