"Windows doesn't let you have both"
I don't know if Windows can use both at the same time because it is maybe a single-mode option by the device (hands-free [mic + (poor) headset] or Stereo [hq headset]. I think it is that because when I listen music on my Android phone, the sound is cristal and then I have a grrr-interrupting call I ear a cut and quality is very lower even on my ringtone ! (But alaway better then hands-free on Windows. Regarding your link, it is thank to the aptX surely.)
If use of "Stereo" and "hands-free" (for mic) modes in the same time in impossible, the last good thing to do for Windows is to have a good quality in hands-free mode (so with aptX) (for example, my work's device is 16b/16kHz in hands-free and 16b/44kHz in Stereo mode). Hope it will come fast.
Windows developers, please make this happen!
Maybe an other think is to develop an alternative driver?