1: Only some hate this feature and I am not one of them. So happy!
- What update is it? Only updates like the cumulative ones and cumulative.net... requires a restart. Plus, it will only ask for a restart after the update (cumulative) is done downloading and finished installing. Actually, after restarting, then it will counts as a successful install. Normally, Windows will not ask for a restart, or automatically restart, never heard off automatically restart unless it pertains to that update. I never have that issue before.
Uh huh. No admin worth his salt would allow a box to reboot without his control. Your clearly just a random end user with a random opinion.