I would have to question if the software is worth the trouble. From all these posts, I gather there are other solutions with far fewer bugs. I would make the determination myself but I haven't been able to get the connection to work and this seems like hours tracking down settings. Reset the phone? After all the customizations, migrating data and contacts and setting up accounts?
There are people and companies that release programs that work most of the time and fail only rarely. Seems like MS has chosen to go the other way on this.