I fought with trying to update to 1803 for months. I tried everything I could think of but kept getting rolled back before completion. It was so frustrating and I can feel all of your pain. However, I finally bit the bullet and reset my PC (Settings>Recovery>Reset
this PC). I had resisted because of not knowing whether I'd brick my PC, lose data files or the hassle of reinstalling programs and having to configure everything.
RESETTING WAS THE BEST DECISION I'VE EVER MADE RELATED TO WINDOWS. My PC is about 5 years old and Windows 10 was an upgrade from the original 7 that it came with. All the crap that had
accumulated with updates and changes is now gone. Not only was the new install 1803, but when it came to upgrading to 1809 a month later, it went without a hitch. I didn't bother reinstalling the applications that I hadn't used in forever. My PC has never
run better; fast and smooth. Reset even creates a list of applications you had installed and puts the file on your desktop. Just make sure you have the activation codes for the programs you need to reinstall.
The whole process took me far less time than I had wasted trying to get to 1803 via Windows Update. It's obviously not what I wanted, but having gone through it I'm happy I finally took this route. None of my data was lost and almost all my customizations
were maintained.