Rereading this thread, you've done so much, it will be a sin if you are not ultimately successful! But - as you said - it is a learning experience (for both of us) no matter.
That looks like version 1809 that you successfully installed into a virtual machine. It hasn't been released yet, far as I know. I don't know enough to say for sure, but I want to agree your hardware is fine for 1809. It does appear the VM uses its own BIOS,
as you say. But you've upgraded the machines BIOS already to 403, 12/24/2013. It's odd your site has a different date for it, though...
https://www.asus.com/us/Tower-PCs/M11BB/HelpDesk_Download/
M11BB - Downloads

(1) Have you tried to clean install 1809 into the normal computer?
(2) Have you tried 1803 into a virtual machine?
(3) You didn't answer - when at the "choose a partition" screen, you deleted all the partitions to unallocated space. Did you then try to create partitions of your own? I think it best just to select the unallocated space & click "Next".