Disclaimer: this worked for me. I can't ensure it'll work for you.
Alright guys I used a different approach which doesn't involve windows 10 update assistant. You're gonna need to boot the installer from a flash drive using the media creation tool(just look this up, there a guide on Microsoft's forum with a download). After getting it on the flash drive I removed my antivirus, disabled my internet, and restarted after a clean boot. I then just ran the installer off the flash drive.
Hope this works for you.
that's how I got around it as well.