Hi Janet - you're most welcome - thanks for putting up with me too, when I definitely wasn't at my best! I am feeling considerably better now than I did this time last week, and I have finally stopped coughing - thank goodness. That was definitely affecting my concentration.
The (free) programs regularly recommended here are MusicBee and MediaMonkey - I tried out Music Bee and it looked pretty good but I'm not sure either of those can import CD. NCH's disc software is supposed to be good but I really don't like the website because it is full of distracting 'Download' buttons - very easy to inadvertently download something you don't want. There used to be a malware issue too but recent reports seem to verify this element has been cleaned up.
As you are not keen on iTunes (which I fully understand - it's a bit top heavy and really only necessary if (as in my case) one is running an apple device I think you will just have to research this one - see what may suit you best. - Regards, Ric.