Well perhaps good news is contagious… Last night I ended all the updates since they have been running for 3 hours without end and set the computer to shut down. I was shocked to see that the computer announced that it had 220 updates and not to power down…
I was not sure what caused this change, perhaps the update software that Gerry Cornell pointed me to or the fact that I upgrade the framework???
Since the number of upgrade was so large, I wonder if I do an upgrade on my laptop overnight this will also help? So I left the desktop to do the power down upgrade and the laptop to do its regular windows update spinning endlessly as usual.
This morning at about 5:30 am I heard the laptop re-boot….. I checked and it had updated hundreds of files, a quick re-run of windows update showed the NORMAL results which it is reported there was only one more essential update and a bunch of non-essential ones. I ran the essential one and then it said it is done.
For the desktop, I ran another windows update and it is now still spinning and it has been running the last 4 hours. I guess there are still lots to go.
So the lesson here for me and others is Gerry is correct – give it time as apparently one can be facing lots of updates and just because it is spinning for hours does not mean it is hung up. Thanks for all the help. As it is, I have to leave town now for a few days but will report back when I return.