Windows 7 64 bit. After installing the patch, I lost all entries in calendar of live mail ... I could not sync it with my outlook account either ...
The calendar you see when you're not signed in is the default calendar. If you're used to being signed in, then the default calendar will probably be empty. Is this what you saw when you wrote I lost all entries?
When you sign in, the account calendar should load and synchronize with the one at calendar.live.com. If it doesn't, there will usually be an error message; otherwise the status message will read Your calendar has been updated. Bearing in mind the number of synchronizations going on these days, it may take several sync cycles before it's successful.
The simplest way to force a sync is to use the right-most button on the Home tab of the ribbon to Sign out of Windows Live Mail, wait a few moments for the default calendar to load fully, then use the same button again to Sign in.
I am always signed in when I use windows live mail and my entries are always synchronized with calendar.live.com. They used to anyway. When I push the 'update all' button , live mail reads e-mail first and then synchronizes the calendar - still signed in. No error messages at the end, I get 'Your calendar has been updated', but still no calendar entries. On the other hand, my mail seems to work fine. I also tried to sign out, wait, sign in, got 'Your calendar has been updated' , still no entries.