Hello Sharief,
My feeling is I most definitely did not click install now or in between the remind me later and now. Because, the thing is... I had received a ribbon notification five or more times a couple day before the event. Because notification ribbon was behaving
"out of the norm" I was interacting with very carefully- making sure I clicked "remind me later". The increased number of notifications seemed to indicate that something was wrong with windows and the ribbon was hungry for change. I assure you I was aware
to carefully click the "remind me" later option.
Before Windows updated to 8.1, the ribbon appeared which DID give me an option to postpone...BUT the longest option was only four hours. Anxious, I searched for a way to stop the upgrade and learned how to turn off the Upgrade Available
in the registry. Unfortunately, I did not reboot (the last step to change the registry}
Later I received a ribbon notification saying I had fourteen minutesto prepare for download and install. I tried to quickly reboot and perform the last step of editing the registry. Unfortunately, the ribbon had more authority and started to download the 8.1 update as soon as my notebook shut down.
This was not the way I intended to do an upgrade. I believe the notification ribbon has a "bug". If true, there are other innocent Windows 8 users ready to be attacked.
I would like you to explain why I did not get an option to "remind me later". Thank you for quick reply.