After reading all of these threads, I have found the issue seems to be two-fold. A bad Qualcomm Atheros WIFI/Bluetooth driver and, in my case, an older Intel Management Engine.
Most problems were resolved by disabling Bluetooth and all problems were resolved when the Intel Management Engine was upgraded. I documented the problem and the solution in this blog: http://keyliner.blogspot.com/2014/01/windows-81-slow-to-shutdown-and-restart.html
This solution allows WIFI to stay enabled. And hopefully, QualComm (aka: Dell-branded 1703 Bluetooth and Wireless card) will release an improved driver. In any case, I have had success.
Have any of you tried allowing Windows to choose drivers to install...? Considering you need a Internet connection to install windows 8... the default drivers should work fine...
I had the same problem as you, with other hardware driver conflicts after upgrading to windows 8.1
But on my last installation, I let windows decide... it installed the drivers automatically... only manually install drivers after doing all possible windows updates available... it will normally take between 2-14 days to do this...
If windows has already installed stable drivers... then all you are doing is forcing window to accept unstable drivers that slow your PC down.