Don't allow computer to turn off adapter is the master setting. Is meant to block the wireless adapter from being incorrectly configured by the computer manufacture power setting. http://support.microsoft.com/kb/2740020/en-us It is usually only relevant if the issues are when a computer is coming back from sleep.
Updated Driver
Before you installed the driver did you notice if the current driver was the same version or if you got a newer one?
Did this make the issue go away 100%?
Turning off windows update
First on the update section of your post. Turning off Windows update is not a good idea. Most of these updates are security related and the rest are bug fixes or enhancements. The rest are updates to things like Flash Player which has to be updated through Windows Update.
Second, when you said, "[...] last time I did an update, the problem started again right away, and I had to do it all over again." Do you mean that the problem started again or that the problem started again and the settings reverted or the problem started again and the driver reverted?
Smart TV issue
You mentioned that updating the driver fixed some other issues such as it stopped dropping the wireless streaming to your Smart TV. Can you explain what was going on there; what type of error did you get? For example, did the TV or computer not see one or the other. Did you get a limited connection notification at the same time the TV connection stopped working? Can you get it to stream when you see the connection has a limited status?
Thanks for letting everyone the status and what you have been ding trying to solve the issue.