Mark,
Apple devices do have this same problem. You can read hundreds of millions of people complaining about needing more space for the updates, and Apple even has an official "what to do if you need more space to get an update"
instruction sheet. It affects all devices, not just the one you have. If you want to go buy an iOS device, that's fine (no one here works for Microsoft or cares, so it won't hurt our feelings at all), but it won't prevent you from having this problem...
you'll just have the same thing happen.
Luckily, Microsoft has the excact same instructions like Apple has. Apple says when you can't update, you can do it by iTunes (using a cord cable plugged in). Microsoft lets you do it by using a USB stick. That way it doesn't matter how much space is
on the device, all the free space it needs to do the update is part of the USB stick (or in Apple's case, part of the computer that's running the iTunes).
Whether you decide to use a USB stick, or simply clear space yourself, it would be best to remove all the leftover files after the updates using the built-in cleanup management (cleanmgr.exe).