Hi All
I finally managed to upgrade to 8.1
As I said, I was suspecting the problem to be related to my MoBo, a Sabertooth x79. So I uninstalled everything related to Asus, such as AI Suite II and the various utilities that the ASUS updates had installed over time. The only thing that I left was Intel's Rapid Storage.
Not only did this really improve the performance, but the upgrade from the MS store (after having done a wsreset) went ok. Haven't checked everything yet, I'm now applying the windows updates.
Happy it finally worked, especially without having to re-install all my sw.
BTW, I saw somewhere people considering Logitech's devices as a possible culprit, I have both a Logitech kpd and a mouse over a unifying wireless receiver and they remained on the system during the upgrade. So (at least for me) Logitech's not guilty...
Good luck to all of you still trying!