That's impossible. You or someone else must have started it. Windows 8.1 will never be automatically pushed to your computer unless you request it. I'm sorry that you accidentally started it, or that someone used your computer without your permission.
You can remove it using the steps that VanCountry politely provided above. However you are misinformed: Windows 8.1 has no such requirement to use a Microsoft Account. You can continue using it without that and without a password just like always, because nothing changed.
Just click "Sign In Without a Microsoft Account" at the bottom of the page:
